Happy 2007!!!!!  

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As we close the curtain on 2006 and look into the future that is 2007, may your days be long and prosperous. What will you be doing to make this new one a banner year? What stands out as the cream of the past year's crop? What "old" things will you be leaving behind? What "new" ones do you hope to take their place?

The Year of Bond?  

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I declare that 2007 - by virtue of the fact that it is "007" - is The Year of Bond. Therefore, vote for your favorite Bond.


Sean Connery

Roger Moore

George Lazenby

Timothy Dalton



Pierce Brosnan

Daniel Craig

Resolution: SIMPLIFY!!!!  

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I've just finished reading a very challenging book. The ideas and information, coupled with the conclusions drawn by the research, presented in this book have caused me to re-think many of my old standards. Because of this I have a New Year's Resolution for 2007: Simplify!

Like many Americans, I've allowed my life to become complicated and cluttered. Several areas of my life will be addressed by this resolution, namely finances, writing, and ministry. One of the concepts discussed in the book reminded me that when we simplify (that means saying no to some things--even good things), we can address with excellence the two or three items that we focus on. I'd rather do one or two things with excellence than ten or twelve with mediocrity.

Withdrawals Anyone?  

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I listen to a great Christian radio station that broadcasts in our area. The music they play is worshipful and helps me stay focused on the Kingdom when otherwise I wouldn't. Starting the day after Thanksgiving, they played Christmas music 24/7. Now that Christmas has come and gone for 2006, it's cold-turkey. Not one drop of Christmas music. Granted I could pop in a Christmas cd of my own, but then I'd miss out on the occasional news updates and the playful banter between the deejays. My question (am I griping again?) is why can't we taper the holiday tunes out over a week or two?

Do you miss the Christmas radio? or is it just me?

I Am Resolved  

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The old parody of the hymn went, "I am dissolved no longer to linger . . ." The hymn itself was pretty good:

I am resolved no longer to linger
Charmed by the world's delights.
Things that are higher, things that are nobler,
These have allured my sight.

I will hasten, hasten to Him
Hasten so glad and free.
Jesus, greatest, highest
I will come to Thee.

Are we resolved? With the new year looming over us, many people will be resolving. Will you? What will your resolution be? Will you resolve something trivial, something demanding, or something lasting? If I get the chance to make some, I'll be posting my New Year's Resolutions in a day or two.

It's a Wonderful Life!!!!!  

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Click here for a different take on one of my all-time favorites. Thanks to Velcro for reminding me of the classic. And a hat-tip to Bill Crider for the 30-second version.

The Gift of Giving  

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Ah, the presents! Like most of America, my family spent time around the tree on Christmas morning enjoying the avarice of the season. We ripped open packages, tossed pretty bows, took pictures of all the loot we’d scored for the holiday. We thanked and we gave, we gave and we took. And now, it is important to think back on Christmases of years gone by—what gifts meant most to us? Of the ones we received? Of the ones we gave?

Most precious, I believe are the unexpected, often simple gifts we receive. The example of gift-giving for Christmas is just that—simple and unexpected. Sadly, these are also the overlooked and discarded gifts as well. Think of the unexpected gifts—gold, frankincense, myrrh. Think of the most precious gift—Jesus. Have we overlooked those gifts from unexpected sources? Have we discarded the gift of life available to us? An even greater question is have we passed on the gift of love that we received through Jesus to those who need Him most?

A Merry Christmas Story  

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We have always put candy in the kids' stockings for Christmas. This year we had gotten a bag each of "chocolate money" to put in their stockings. Toward the end of their quiet time in their rooms after lunch, the son came out and said, "I got no money." I looked and he had chocolate dripping down his chin. He had eaten every bit of chocolate. When we went to his room to check things out, beside his bed was a circle of foil wrapping.

Merry Christmas everyone.

Tradition!  

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This year we started a new Christmas tradition--we think we'll keep it. After the candlelight service at church we got the kids into their pajamas and ready for bed, then we took a drive to the town about ten miles away to look at Christmas lights. The kids enjoyed it, it was relaxing for Mom and Dad, and there were lots of "ooh! look!" and "Santa--Frosty--polar bear!" exclamations from the back of the mini-van.
Another tradition that we enjoy is the What God Wants for Christmas devotional nativity. This year we started about six weeks before Christmas and opened one of the "presents" in the kit. Tomorrow morning (Christmas Day) before opening our gifts to each other, we'll open the last box in the kit to discover "What God wants for Christmas."
It's the simple things that make life's traditions worth keeping.
Merry Christmas to all and may your traditions grow sweet as your days grow long.

Super Friends!  

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My sis-in-law was here at the beginning of December for Curtis' birthday. She got this photo of the kids being the Super Friends with her phone. We have no fear in our house--Superman and Wonder Woman are here.

Christmas Is Blooming  

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My mother's Christmas cactus always seemed to bloom in February. This year my dad was able to get a picture about three weeks ago. He said that then all the blooms fell off and it's blooming again . . . just in time for Christmas!
The beauty of Christmas! And of course, the beauty of the plant pales tremendously in the beauty of CHRISTmas.

Budding Artist  

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For those who don't know, my five-year-old is an artist. She is also picking up on her daddy's love for the season. Below you will find her free-hand interpretation of Santa Claus.

From the Manger to the Cross  

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It is heartwarming to open up the decorations at the beginning of the Christmas season—to unwrap the crèche that we so carefully stored away last year. We set up the makeshift stable stall and then deposit all the characters in their traditional place—the shepherds with their sheep standing nearby, the ox and the donkey quietly kneeling with head bowed toward the scene before them the Gloria Angel atop the stall (hanging from a well hidden finishing nail), the wisemen in their caravan traveling in to see the newborn king. Finally we unwrap Mary and Joseph placing them just so, leaving space for the star of the show: the Baby Jesus, lying in the manger.
What is not so heartwarming—what we neglect to think of at this special time—is that this Baby is more than the star of this show. He’s the star of all the shows. He is born with the purpose of placing himself upon a cross hewn of rough timber. This other scene is not nearly so pleasant—the scene of a man (the God-Man, the Son of Man) hanging blood-soaked and weary, dying for my sin. Sin that I must admit earned no one the sentence He suffers but me. He was born to take my place. He died taking my place.

He is also the star of the final show. The one which brings to mind the triumphant picture of an empty tomb and ends with the shattering of the sky as we know it. Do you know this Jesus? Have you told your friends?

Everybody's Got the Christmas Spirit  

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Here are some Christmas quotes that may cheer you: (thanks to Danny Sims)

  • Christmas is a time when you get homesick - even when you're home. --Carol Nelson
  • There has been only one Christmas - the rest are anniversaries. --W.J. Cameron
  • Never worry about the size of your Christmas tree. In the eyes of children, they are all 30 feet tall. --Larry Wilde
  • I stopped believing in Santa Claus when I was six. Mother took me to see him in a department store and he asked for my autograph. --Shirley Temple
  • Mail your packages early so the post office can lose them in time for Christmas. --Johnny Carson
  • The worst gift is a fruitcake. There is only one fruitcake in the entire world, and people keep sending it to each other. --Johnny Carson
  • The one thing women don't want to find in their stockings on Christmas morning is their husband. --Joan Rivers
  • I once bought my kids a set of batteries for Christmas with a note on it saying, toys not included. --Bernard Manning
  • Anyone who believes that men are the equal of women has never seen a man trying to wrap a Christmas present. --Anonymous

And now . . . Back to Christmas  

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Cornerstone Community Church is in the Christmas spirit--thanks to you guys.

(click on the link for great Christmas fun)

What Does Google have to do with it?  

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I’d like to take a brief break from my Christmas tirade (just a short one) to run a few thoughts by my reading public:

Simplicity seems to be a growing phenomenon in our society. People are working hard to un-clutter their lives, their homes, their budgets, their (fill in the blank). Why? Because people want to feel no longer out of control. Take for example the premise behind John Grisham’s book from 2001. Skipping Christmas was about a man who had finally decided to quit making a big deal out of Christmas and for once spend all the money he’d normally spend on the holidays for a holiday trip. The idea—what if we removed the trappings of Christmas and just enjoyed each other? (Oops, there goes that Christmas tirade again!)

Even Google has developed a “simple” mindset with a homepage that is free from extras—those bells and whistles that flash at you from every other homepage/search engine on the ‘Net. Thom Rainer and Eric Geiger cite this trend in their book Simple Church (Broadman & Holnam, 2006). Note the following quote:

“Marissa Mayer oversees the Google home page. She is responsible to keep it simple. She says that ‘once you have a home page like our competitors, paring it back like Google’s is impossible. You have too many stakeholders who feel they should be promoted on the home page.’”

I’ll let Rainer and Geiger make their own point about simplifying church, instead I was just wondering what kind of application this knowledge might have to some other arenas:

Government—is it really true that they can’t cut back on the pork and the fat? According to Mayer that must be the case, because “once you have [interest groups] like [Congress does], paring back to [the essentials] is impossible. You have too many stakeholders who feel they should be promoted . . .” (I think the principle fits.)

Homes—we begin to have a difficult time saying no to the unnecessary things that clutter our lives and tax our budgets because we’ve always done them, had them, or wanted them.

Perhaps you know some other areas that need to be clutter-free. I’d love for you to share them here.

Try this one for your Christmas Spirit  

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Your Christmas lights are glowing 92%.

Awesome! Your Christmas tree lights up the whole room! You are a true lover of all things Christmas, and a joy for those around you!

Christmas Trivia
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Christmas Reading  

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Along with music and movies, I love to read Christmas stories. I've read everything from Richard Paul Evans' Christmas Box to Dickens' Christmas Carol. They are all inspiring. Some would argue that the two little stoies I've mentioned before are strictly Christmas stories (I'll admit to one, but the other simply has Christmas elements, you decide which). This also made me think of favorite Christmas reading. Do you have any? There are so many good stories out there. Some are religious, some are based on the legends and myths associated with Christmas, but what I've found to be true of all Christmas stories is that they are heartwarming or heartwrenching or both. A good Christmas story will, at some point, pull at your heartstrings and make even the burlyest of men wipe the sweat from their eyes.

Here are some of my all-time favorite stories (aside from the original Christmas story, which of course makes all the others dim in comparison):

  • The Autobiography of Santa Claus as told to Jeff Guinn (the author followed this up with an interesting How Mrs. Claus Saved Christmas which was good but not as compelling as the original. This year Guinn delivered The Great Santa Search in time for Christmas, but I haven't gotten my copy yet.)
  • A Christmas Carol by Charles Dickens (always a Christmas staple--one which everyone continues to try to copy.)
  • The Christmas Wish by Richard Siddoway (I read this one after seeing the made-for-TV movie starring Neal Patrick Harris. Both are good, but if you have to choose, take the book.)
  • The Christmas Box by Richard Paul Evans (This one has become a classic after simple beginnings as a self-published story for his children.)
  • The Christmas Shoes by Donna VanLiere (While she has added several volumes, all based around Christmas, to her bibliography, this is still VanLiere's best story.)
  • and finally, "The Gift of the Magi" by O Henry (I love to read this story just for me every year. Set in the depression years, when times were hard. If you haven't read this short story, find a copy--you won't regret it.)

If you'd like to join this discussion with your favorite (aside from the Biblical account of the Nativity) Christmas story, just post a comment. I'd love to know what you're reading.




What are you?  

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Jamie Manasco has touched on a thought that bears response. Do you have a "being statement"? While we live in a world that fills people up with vision statements and mission statements and goal statements--all focused on what we do, we have forgotten to be.

At the risk of making you come up with another "Life Statement", I was just wondering, do you have a being statement? If so, would you share it here? If not, try developing one and share it here. (Mine is the first comment, if you're interested.)

Christmas Music  

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The shepherds heard some of the first Christmas music. Many preachers will say that the scripture says nothing about the angels singing, but instead “praising God and saying.” I believe, whether spoken, shouted, or sung, the words heard by the shepherds that night on the Bethlehem plain filled their ears, eyes, hearts and minds with music. Christmas music is important to us as a church and to us as a culture—so much so that artists continually write new music for Christmas and produce new albums year after year. There are Christian Christmas albums, Country Christmas albums, Rock Christmas albums—I even received a Comedy Christmas album this season. Why? Because Jesus gives music to the season.