Seven Years is Copper  

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Tomorrow the Blushing Bride and I will celebrate seven years of matrimony. Since it's a Sunday and Sundays are always hectic anyway, we left the kids with Hannah's Grandma (who's up from Kentucky) and went out to the Olive Garden. We decided to exchange our gifts for each other while we were out.

Now you must understand that we decided on our first anniversary to try and get a "traditional" gift each year as one of the presents we do for each other. First anniversary was easy--paper; we both are book addicts, so that's easy. On year 5 (wood) was fun, I got a wooden-cased clock and had a cabinet made in the shape of a wardrobe (in honor of her love for C.S. Lewis and all things Narnia). But seven is copper or wool. This year it was time to get creative. We were neither one really excited about wool, and I didn't really want to get Hannah a set of copper bottomed cook pans, we began searching several months ago. I also wanted to steer clear of copper tea kettles. Hannah has a great collection of tea kettles, but she already has two of the copper variety. So we both went shopping at the "antique" stores. Here's the results of our labors:



The one on the left is the one I bought for Hannah. The one on the right is Hannah's gift to me. The only difference is I got gyped out of a platter (Hannah got the better deal), or I got the better deal because I ended up with the one that has the platter included.

The Holidays Are Officially Here  

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Last year I had the opportunity to "elf" myself. This year the videos are bigger and better. Click for this video, and then for this one. Let 'em load. You'll be glad you did.

Thanksgiving Note  

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I wanted to share an old song that I really loved about twenty years ago, "I Thank You, Lord" but couldn't find the lyrics. So, here's one I hadn't heard for years until about two weeks ago:

We've got so much, so much, so much, so much,
SO much, so much, so much, so much,
SO much, so much (clap)
To be thankful for.




Rather than list a list that goes on and on--here's just one of the many things that I'm thankful for:




My Blushing Bride




Choose one from your exhaustive list and post it in the comments.

Word Police (Russian edition)  

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I can’t stand it any more! I’ve been whining about the way we Americans use misuse English constantly, and now I’m fed up with the way we Americans have been using misusing Russian. It all started with a (not-so) innocent movie released about this time last year (and now out in home-viewing form). The problem is that we see Cyrillic letters and know nothing about them. So we hear the Russians name their international space station “Mir” with the Russian word for “Peace” and spell it with Cyrillic letters that mean nothing. The “backwards ‘r’” is not an ‘r’ at all, but the Russian vowel ‘ya’ which by itself means ‘I’. The Russians use our letter ‘p’ for the letter ‘r’.

It’s all a lettering issue. When we see the letters CCCP on film of Olympics gone by we Americans think “See, See, See, Pea” and the Russian says “Ess, Ess, Ess, Are”. And this brings me to my gripe of the day. Just recently I saw another picture advertising the movie we Americans call “Bore-At”. The Russian letters (ВОЯДТ) look like B – O – R – A – T to most Americans. The Cyrillic letters used in the movie posters spell what would actually be VO-YaDT if transliterated into English.

There, now I’ve let off the steam, I don’t expect I’ll watch the movie, but I feel better.

I'm not Usually about Politics, but . . .  

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Check out this ad:



(HT: Bill Crider)

Mulberry Grove -- Reaching Out with Angel Food  

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Our first distribution was on Saturday, November 17, 2007. Everything went smoothly and we had a great time ministering to our community.

Self-Publishing, Anyone?  

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The world of publishing is an interesting animal. Bill Crider got me to thinking about this very thing recently. Here are some thoughts I have on the matter.

If you’ve written your book, there are lots of ways to go about getting it published:

Vanity Press – These are the guys that will print whatever you want for a price. The purpose of this type of printing is twofold: (1) See your name on the by-line, and (2) make lots of money for the printer/publisher. Your books may never really see the light of day, and you’re required to order a minimum number of books.

Self-publishing Houses – By their description, these are publishing houses who try to avoid the stigma associated with vanity press. As I look at them, they are not much different, though. The point is they want to help you get your book in print. Many of these houses got their start by doing cookbook fundraising projects for a variety of groups. They are the publisher of choice for many a preacher who thinks he has something to say to the world. In defense of the Self-Publishers I have checked into, I must say that they do not sugarcoat the necessity of the author being the one front-line fighter for their own book. For a price most of these houses have a package deal that will give you a jump-start on the marketing of your book.

Online Print-On-Demand (POD) Self-publishers – The beauty of this style of book publishing which was birthed out of the technological revolution is that you can print only one book or five hundred or five thousand (discount pricing applies to bulk orders), or you can even sell downloadable copies of your book to save your customers money. Again there are packages that include marketing aids available for a fee.

Traditional Publishing Houses – The traditional route is the hardest route to take. At the same time, if you want to “make it” as an author, it is the route most likely to get you there. Some of the pitfalls that the aspiring author will have with traditional publishing start with the barriers to even getting your manuscript read. Most publishers have so many unsolicited submissions that they don’t have the manpower to read them all. This is probably because they’re already soliciting known and established authors to write another great book for them. To go this route, the best thing is to find an agent who will champion your book. Agents aren’t all about getting your book sold on the marketplace, but selling your idea/book to the publishers. Beware of charletans who ask you for money just to read your book, though. If you find an agent or even a publisher who is willing to accept unsolicited manuscripts, be sure to follow their instruction for submissions as closely as possible (many want a synopsis or proposal before reading an entire book—if yours doesn’t fit their needs they won’t waste their time or yours on a full manuscript). Then start waiting for the rejection notices: develop a thick skin—you’ll be turned down more often than accepted. It doesn’t mean that your writing is bad, it just didn’t tickle the right reader.

And now for my (“most humble”) advice for those who choose to go the route of self-publishing (thought I’d never get there, huh?):

Don’t do this if you’re looking to make money. I’ve published both with general SP houses and POD publishers. I’ve sold enough copies of my books to cover my initial investment, but little more. If you want to publish with SP houses (or POD houses, for that matter) be sure that you are writing for your own pleasure.

Don’t expect to “get discovered.” SP houses are really bad about advertising their service with names like Richard Paul Evans (The Christmas Box was originally a SP effort for family and friends) to entice people to publish their book with them.

Learn to be shameless in your self-promotion. Nobody really cares about your book but you and maybe a good friend or family member (my dad is a better PR man for my first books than I am). False humility often grasps new authors. If your book is really worth reading, tell people.

Finally, if you’re going to self-publish and want to have enough books printed to be sold on the market, start with a small printing. If the book just doesn’t sell, a printing of 500 to 1500 will leave with a lot fewer boxes of books to store than a 10K to 20K run. I personally think that if you’re the kind of author who can merit a multiple thousand copy run with a first edition of a book, you’ve probably already been discovered and are working with a major house somewhere because people will buy your book based on your name. Unless you bear the same name as someone like Stephen King, John Grisham, or Michael Crichton, and can get away with adding an initial to keep confusion (sort of) at bay, you’re not going to sell that many books on your first effort. Besides, even those guys don’t always write devourable material.

Happy writing, everyone!

Did You Save Any?  

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We're now at the end of Daylight Savings Time and preparing to move our clocks again to "Standard Time." So I have two questions:



  1. Did you save any? or

  2. What are you doing with all that daylight you saved over the summer?